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The soccer publication is strangely tedious, yet strangely captivating. Its title raises questions. Dear England already names a successful theatrical production, an upcoming TV show, and a public letter authored by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This edition of Dear England is not formally connected to those. It stands as an anomaly in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about guidance: a traditionally dull elite football manager trope that the author follows relentlessly, employing the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “leadership” at least 500 times across the book’s entirety.

Themes Explored

“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” the author questions early on, establishing his position, but stopping short to ask “When are leaders?”, questions presumably reserved for a follow-up publication.

Beyond that, this publication has a book-shaped hole in the middle. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile self-defense, in coming close without actually stating the actual thing, jumping skillfully from unsettled score to raw emotion across a assortment of graphs, corporate platitudes and references about Thomas Cromwell.

Immersion

Reading it is like listening to your parents having a polite but intensely emotional debate in the nearby area while you’re trying to pay attention on a business seminar titled “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to stop reading, as Southgate keeps approaching to a topic you actually want to learn about, before suddenly changing tack.

Disclosures

Readers will find typically controversial revelations in publications in this genre, explained by the rapt fascination with the role of England manager. The most striking ones encompass: he made up his mind he was certainly going to quit as England manager after spectators threw beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at mid-match against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his players were targeted with slurs; he invented the idea of dedicated restart experts and all teams in the top division is now copying him; he has now abandoned his passion for football, a shocking confession briefly included in a brief section at the end.

Leading England through a period of anger, optimism, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a brutal journey. The bruises are obviously still unhealed.

Generic Content

Otherwise, the narrative is flooded with an computer-generated verbal clutter of generic guidance discourse. Review editions of this publication were distributed with journalists under secrecy pacts ahead of release, likely out of concern someone might reveal that “tough talks can, by their nature, be tough”, that you should always consider the consequences, that guidance happens where change combines with compassion.

Sincere Expression

The book contains nevertheless authentic emotion within. Guiding England through a period of fury, optimism, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a grueling ordeal. The bruises are obviously still unhealed, albeit conveyed in a terminology-heavy reinterpretation of the traditional coach theme: demonstrating my accuracy about each issue throughout.

Specific Examples

The publication’s initial chapter, disguised as thrilling memories of the deciding game of the European Championship, is completely dedicated to how successful Southgate in fact was at substitutes (the big Southgate gripe revolving around he was not effective at making changes). Further on, he explores extensive analysis about how he handled the Euros final of 2021 impeccably – particularly the unsuccessful penalty shootout – because he adhered to a predetermined process, which must mean that throwing on inexperienced squad members very late to take the most important kick of their careers was reasonable and right.

This was validated by a victorious shootout against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a match where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to put on a jumper the wrong way round. “The control we exerted in that shootout was absolutely exhilarating,” he writes, while equating the showing to elite military units neutralizing Osama bin Laden. Dear me.

Withheld Details

When we do get close to a revelation, he retreats from identifying individuals or providing the details. We discover there were difficult England players who demanded more focus, perhaps because they were pampered at the start of their careers. But as you anticipate expectantly, the author is quickly veering off into an area named The Culture Code, which asserts that as opposed to a collection of characteristics or principles, culture is in fact a phenomenon that is created by, gah, enough, no more.

Highlights

Within the stronger bits are when Southgate writes about the incremental process of developing resilience in young people, or how he attempted to describe Englishness more clearly and more positively than any other figure in the spotlight. The standout section, there is a really absorbing description of that traumatic night in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were viciously abused (and subsequently defended forcefully by their manager).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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